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//*Friday, March 28, 2008*//

All About Cancer
Crabs live in the inter-tidal zone of the oceans, where tides rise and fall twice every day. This is the most dynamic and changeful place on earth, but also the most nutrient rich. Because of the constant change, Cancer have developed a hard outer shell for protection. Cancer can use the hard outer shell of your home as your protection. But it's more than just that. Typically, your sensitive Cancer can hold your feelings quietly behind your own walls.

Crabs also have large pinching claws, and Cancer can hold onto things, especially from the past. Cancer are fiercely loyal and have a difficult time letting go. But Cancer are also quick to bring those you love inside the safety of your outer shell while you nurture them. Cancer love is protective, but unless tempered, can be smothering.

Cancer motto could be, "A good defense is the best offense." Like a Crab in its cave, your attack can consist of baiting your opponent into your territory. What appears to be a retreat to others can be your best aggressive tactic. As you feel your way through life, building your security by developing your home and family relationships, remember that unexpressed anger can turn into resentment and depression, so find someone you can trust and share your feelings.

Element: WaterAstrologically, the water element symbolizes emotion. Water runs deep; it seeks its own level and will flow until it has found it. The cycle of water is endless with the snows falling in the mountains and melting. The mountain streams join to make the great rivers that run to the sea. The tides and currents churn the oceans. Similarly, our feelings are flowing as they connect the present with past experiences. Sometimes the waters are so deep that we cannot put words to our feelings.

Cancer Greatest Strength: Your ability to nurture others

Cancer Possible Weakness: Fear of the past repeating in the future.
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Additional:
Primary Characteristics:
-Creative
-Romantic
Positive Personality Traits:
-Emotional and loving
-Intuitive and imaginative
-Protective and sympathetic
-Shrewd and cautious
Dangers:
-Can be changeable and moody
-Can be clinging, and may be unable to let go
-Can be overemotional and touchy.
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Relationships:
Most Compatible:
Scorpio, Pisces
Compatible:
Leo, Virgo, Taurus, Gemini
Evens:
Sagittarius, Aquarius
Least Compatible:
Libra, Capricorn, Aries, Cancer.
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Flowers
Over many centuries a tradition has arisen of giving flowers that correspond to a loved-one's or friend's birth date.
Here are the appropriate flowers for somebody born in July:
Larkspur
For those born in late June, you may prefer to give the traditional flowers for that month:
Rose
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The Cancerians
Cancerians will be dedicated workers, and will do well at keeping their work and home lives separated. If you have a co-worker with an office full of family photos, you can be sure you are working with a Cancer individual. Cancers do best in jobs where they can nurture others. They have the imagination and intuition to feel what others are feeling and therefore make good human resource employees, trainers, or medical personnel. They are usually not ecstatic about change, so a stable job environment is a positive for Cancer. All in all, the Cancer individual will provide you with a strong, diligent, stable worker who empathizes with co-workers and does a good job with his assigned tasks.
If you have found a romantic partner in a Cancer, you have a caring, insightful, and sentimental partner indeed. Although your Cancer will demand complete honesty and fidelity from you, be aware that it is not above him to dally once in a while himself. Rest assured, though, his real roots are with those to whom he has made a commitment. Cancerians are the most nurturing sign in the zodiac, with a deep-seated need to care for others, and as such will make an excellent caretaker of both the home and the children. Some might find the Cancerian's lavish attention a bit smothering, however, and if Cancer does not feel their efforts are appreciated, they will fall into a deep funk that may be quite hard to reverse. Many find Cancer individuals difficult to understand, as their emotions sometimes overrule their more sensible side. In order to have a successful relationship with a Cancer, one must choose to accept mood swings and the occasional need that their Cancer partner has to withdraw completely at times. Your Cancer partner equates money with security, and along with providing a comfortable home, will also likely see to it that there is a comfortable nest egg in reserve too.
The best matches for Cancer for sure are Scorpio and Pisces. but Taurus, Leo, Gemini, and Virgo might work for some individuals. It will likely be tough going for Aries, Libra, Capricorn, or another Cancer.
Cancer in any relationship is nurturing and caring, but with deep mood swings and a sharp tongue when provoked. Cancer seeks out others who are stable and loyal, and who want to focus on home and family. The Cancer individual will be cautious with money and will likely have some cash stashed away for a rainy day. He will also be a collector of something , maybe antiques because of his emotional ties to the past, but possibly something such as coins or model cars or shot glasses. Your Cancer friend will help you if you are in need, but will almost always wait until the last minute to do so, after waiting for you to exhaust all other possibilities. Just remember, the by-words for Cancer are "I feel," so be careful to emit good vibes around your Cancerian friend and you will be richly rewarded!
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The End.



*my heart was broken_


1:33 AM




//**//


我要幸福！
身边的朋友随着时间，都有了她们人生的另一半。为她们感到无批的开心。希望他们能永永远远幸福的在一起。
我呢，当然也有了我人生最重要的另一半。他对我很好，很爱我。帮助我度过了很多难关，带着我向前走，过着有意义的人生。因为他，我的人生不自于只有黑暗，从叛逆的我，我学会了懂事，替被人着想，关心身边的人。懂得分辩对于错。不可否认，我的人生已不能没有他。
有了幸福，也会有不幸福。上帝是公平的，每个人都会有缺点，每件事都会有坏的一面。
我有了一个好的爱情，却不能完全被祝福。我不能进一步的参与他的世界，只能当他生命中的一个配角。我了解，并且体谅他的难处。没办法不去难过的我，只能不知所措的伤心。
我希望，不久的将来，我会被肯定，会被接受，会被祝福。

最近，非常喜欢这首歌。
从以前也蛮欣赏这位歌手。他的歌，让我听了会开心起来，会突然沉默，会感动。


曲名：为你写诗
歌手：吴克群

爱情 是一种怪事
我开始全身不受控制
爱情 是一种本事
我开始连自己都不是
为你我做了太多的傻事
第一件就是为你写诗

为你写诗 为你静止
为你做不可能的事
为你我学会弹琴写词
为你失去理智

为你写诗 为你静止
为你做不可能的事
为你弹奏所有情歌的句子
我忘了说最美的是你的名字


爱情 是一种怪事
你的笑容是唯一宗旨
爱情 是一种本事
我在你心里什么位置
为你我做了太多的傻事
第一件就是为你写诗

为你写诗 为你静止
为你做不可能的事
为你我学会弹琴写词
为你失去理智

为你写诗 为你静止
为你做不可能的事
为你弹奏所有情歌的句子
我忘了说最美的是你的名字


为你写诗 为你静止为
你做不可能的事
为你我学会弹琴写词
为你失去理智

为你写诗 为你静止
为你做不可能的事
为你弹奏所有情歌的句子
我忘了说最美的是你的名字


我什么都能忘记
但唯一不忘的是你的名字
我什么都能忘记
但唯一不忘的是你的样子
我什么都能忘记
但唯一不忘的是你的名字
我什么都能忘记
但唯一不忘的是你的样子

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我希望，我也能为了你，做你喜欢，会幸福开心的事。
为了你，我愿意做任何事，只要能看到你对我微笑。
爱你，幸福，是我唯一能为你常识去做的事。
你懂我吗？---〉我爱你...



*my heart was broken_


12:32 AM




//*Wednesday, March 12, 2008*//


if only i could be a bit more heartless like you... i might be free from sadness, loneliness...
if only i could be a bit more thoughtful... you might not treat me like that...
if only i could forget you...
what will my life be?
if only... i did not know you at the begining...
will i... be happy... be upset... be lonely...?
if only... countless of "if only"...
if only... i don't exist... i will not be hurt... others will not be hurt by me too...


*my heart hurts, my tears dried up... by the cold wind in the lonely night~*



*my heart was broken_


12:30 AM




//*Tuesday, March 11, 2008*//

这世界最甜蜜的是爱情。。。
但最可贵的却是亲情。。。
爱情不一定是永久的。。。
但亲情却是一生一世的。。。
曾经以为爱情是我的一切。。。
现在才发现亲情使我的人生。。。
当我深深陷入爱情里时。。。 缺发现爱清不完美的事实。。。发现爱情可怕的一面。。。
我陷入了困境。。。我不知所措。。。我对爱情失去了信心。。。



*my heart was broken_


11:04 PM




//*Sunday, March 09, 2008*//

如果说。。。

爱情是甜蜜的。是充满着浪漫气氛，是幸福美满的。
为什么？还是有许多伤心地回忆？还是有痛苦流泪的场合出现？
难道~ 爱情等于甜蜜，也等于痛苦吗？
那如果缺少了任何一样，那时不是等于那段感情不等于是爱情了呢？



*my heart was broken_


4:50 AM




//*Wednesday, March 05, 2008*//


爱情。。。
是一件很复杂的关系。。
甜蜜的时候。。。有说不出的幸福。。。让人难分难舍。。。
在冷战或争吵的时候。。。让人心情烦躁。。。痛哭泪流。。。
而感情的多余少。。。会随着时间而变化。。。
说变就变。。。不等人。。。不给面子。。。不看情份。。。
是个即羡慕，又可怕的关系。。。
让我无法猜透。。。去看明白。。。去多了解。。。

有过甜蜜的爱情。。。也有过痛苦的回忆。。。
现在的我们。。。不知处在哪一个阶段。。。
我感到不安。。。感到纳闷。。。感到不知所措。。。
我不了解你。。。你也不了解我要的是什么。。。
我试着把这份感情抓好。。。不放弃任何能让我们之间更亲密的机会。。。
不知是哪里出问题。。。永远都不能完成心愿。。。

我累了。。。真的很累。。。
我多次想放弃。。。却依依不舍。。。
以很习惯你的存在。。。我该怎么办才好？
希望不久将来。。。我们会有好的结果。。。
我爱你~ 你爱我吗？



*my heart was broken_


10:54 PM